Originally Posted by Athersin
Those who masturbate frequently may not be satisfied with what they have owned.
sex is totally different compared to masturbation...a simple analogy,masturbation is like the appetizer,sex is like the main course.hehe.im not sure if that's the proper way to illustrate it,but at least that's what i feel about it.
Originally Posted by WiNGLeSs_anGeL31
Now is that a consolatory remark to mask the lack of self-control? Masturbation reduces the whole sex act to just an 'act' devoid of any other meaning. If you can achieve the sexual pleasure on your own, then how special will your sexual relationship with your spouse be?
Anything can be used to mask the lack of self-control. Yielding to urges as they come makes you nothing more than an unthinking biological creature.
i'll comment on the first post.how special a sexual relationship with a spouse depends on how open you are to each other...it's more about the foreplay instead of the actual intercourse itself.masturbation doesn't affect anything.it WILL NOT make sexual intercourse meaningless.unless one is having sex with a prostitute,well,that's a different story.i've always took the stand that defends masturbation,so from my own experience,(and i admit i can be quite an orgasm addict) masturbation doesn't turn sexual intercourse to a meaningless act.
1 more thing,masturbation really does prevent premature ejaculation.someone who never masturbate will definitely ejaculate prematurely during his 1st few intercourses.now,isn't that unfair to the ladies?so guys,train your penis from now on!hehe